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88 East Main St.
Meriden, CT 06450
Phone: (203) 235-3338
Fax: (203) 686-1676
Nelson Cossette

Nelson J. Cossette III

Thursday, July 18th, 1935 - Wednesday, January 9th, 2019
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Nelson J. Cossette III, passed away on Wednesday, January 9, 2019 at Midstate Medical Center. Born on July 18, 1935, he was the son of the late Nelson J. Cossette Jr and Mary Ellen (Fox) Cossette. He attended local schools and graduated from Meriden High School, Class of 1954. On his sixteenth birthday, Nelson obtained his pilots license and for a while enjoyed the title of the youngest pilot in the state. After working at the Meriden Airport for several years, he joined the Meriden Police Department in 1958 as a supernumerary police officer and was named a regular officer April of 1959. He retired in 2001 after forty-three years of dedicated service to the City of Meriden at the rank of Deputy Chief of Police. Mr. Cossette rose through the ranks in the department serving in every rank in the patrol division from supernumerary to Deputy Chief. During his career, he received sixteen commendations for outstanding police work and also received the police merit award. Mr. Cossette served in the Connecticut Air National Guard and the United States Air Force Reserve from 1954 to 1961. He was also a former member of the Civil Air Patrol and the Silver City Flying Club. He graduated from the E.M.T. class at Yale New haven Hospital and from 1974 to 1984, owned and operated the Mayfair Ambulance Service in Wallingford. Mr. Cossette was a member of the Meriden Lions Club since 1982 and served as Chairman of many events. He also served on the advisory board of High Hopes. The Salvation Army and the now defunct H.E.P. (Help Elderly People)
He is survived by his beloved wife Donna (Shoneck) Cossette. He is also survived by his daughter, Cynthia (Gerald) Lemieux of Terryville; granddaughter, Tara (John) Pucci of Southington; great-grandsons, Austin and Colton Pucci; step-daughter, Susan (Jeffrey) Geary of East Hampton; stepson, Robert (Madeline) Baird of Killingworth and step-grandchildren, Andrew, Rachel and Sarah. He is also survived by his son-in-law, Daniel L. Murphy. He was predeceased by the daughter Lauri A. Cossette Murphy.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend a funeral service to be held on Saturday, January 12th at 1 p.m. at the John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home, 88 E. Main St., Meriden, CT 06450. Burial will follow in Walnut Grove Cemetery. Friends may call at the funeral home from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. prior to the service.
Donations in his memory may be made to the Meriden Lions Welfare Projects, Inc. P.O. Box 2629 Meriden, CT 06450.
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  • Visitation

    Saturday, January 12th, 2019 | 10:00am - 1:00pm
    Saturday, January 12th, 2019 10:00am - 1:00pm
    John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home
    88 East Main Street
    MERIDEN, CT 06450
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  • Service

    Saturday, January 12th, 2019 | 1:00pm
    Saturday, January 12th, 2019 1:00pm
    John J. Ferry & Sons Funeral Home
    88 East Main Street
    MERIDEN, CT 06450
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  • Interment

    Walnut Grove Cemetery
    817 Old Colony Rd
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Posted at 08:02pm
My sincere condolences to the family. May your many fine memories of Nelson and loving words comfort family and friends during this difficult time (Isaiah 57:15)

Tonia Wrighht-Buzek

Posted at 10:02am
Dear Donna and family: I am sorry to hear of the passing of Nelson. May he rest in peace. Tonia Wright-Buczek Dear Donna and family, I am so sorry to hear of Nelson's passing. May he rest in peace. Tonia Wright-Buczek

Jan Gordon

Posted at 07:29am
Donna and family - please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Nelson was a great guy and will be missed by many. Wishing you peace and solace. Love Jan

David Murdy

Posted at 06:36pm
Donna and Family, Nelson was a great man with many accomplishments. I am very proud to have known him and to have him as a friend. Please know that our prayers are with you in this difficult time. Nelson rest in peace my friend.

M. H.

Posted at 10:16am
With sympathy to the Cossette family for the loss of your husband and father. May the memories you have of him shine through the pain you are going through and give you strength. The intense feelings associated with grief are normal. To help me cope with grief when my father died I accepted support from family and friends, recognized that everyone grieves differently, balanced my time by doing activities that temporarily distanced me from my pain, and kept alive the memories by collecting pictures of him. This gave me comfort and strength. I hope this will help you if you do these things too. I also prayed to Jehovah God for strength and comfort. 2 Corinthians 1;3, 4.

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